Identification Firstly identify the minute aspects which are harming you or have become a reason for loss of your confidence. Identify minutely all your mental and physical weaknesses including of conversation and movement etc and note all the short comings of your personality. For identifying this Mirror can be of a great help. Therefore analyze yourself and reactions receved from relatives and friends, collegues, near and dear ones. You will realize all your weaknesses yourself. Although every person knows the negeative features of his personality, yet he tries to hide for one reason or the other. Which later on turns out to be his habit. eg if you are of shy nature while talking to others you feel shiness is a natural phenomenon. According to experts this can be removed by changing your lifestyle, so go ahead, identify your weaknesses and get the benefit by improving yourself.

Mental Acceptance You have noted down, all your shortcomings and you know that nothing is going to happen by noting them. After identifying the weaknesses accept them mentally that you really have these weaknesses in you. This acceptance will create self confidence in you.

Develop selfconfidence After getting mental acceptance, develop your self confidence internally, that you want to remove your drawbacks and whatever yu have to do for it, you will do, otherwise you will remain backward. improve your physical and mental energies to increase your self confidence. Physical capacity can be enhanced by good food, cleanliness, yoga, excersise, and a good routine life system. To increase your mental energies, incorporate good qualities in your thinking and mentality. After this you will find new ideas, new enthusiasm, new alertness in yourself which is selfconfidence.

Arrange means So far you have identified weaknesses and accepted them mentally and have determined to eradicate them. and to develop your self confidence. After that you need appropriate means. Try to acquire required means yourself. If necesary take others help without any hesitation, cos you will be helping yourself as well as others in future. This means maybe of any type. Some one may need a dress, other may need costmetics, consultation or any other help.

Practice After obtaining the means we need to use them. Inorder to get benefits from it, which will only be possible, if you use these means regularly which is the key to sucess. because it is this excersie which will open new horizens for you. As the proverb says ' practice makes a man perfect'. Since you are not mentally weak but have got alertness, faith and self confidence. So continue your practice regularly.

Keep patience and tolrance Keep patience after excersise and let the result come by itself. Dont run after because patience and tolrance are key to sucess.

Get sucess Now you have opened the door of sucess by self confidence, proper means, regular excersice, patience and tolrance. So move forward and become sucessful.